What I've written elsewhere about one essay applies more
generally to this website and especially to all my essays and erotic
writings: they are not just for creative outlets for my analytical and
libidinal sides respectively, and not just writing for women readers
(whether it's the 99.99% I will never meet, as well as that very
special someone with whom to be in a relationship) to enjoy being
aroused by, though that's a desired end too, but more than that,
ultimately, the goal "equally or more [is] to help improve and deepen
our appreciation and understanding of human sexuality in general and
of D/s in particular" whether it be from reading intense erotica that
delves into the human heart, and psyche, or from stepping back and
taking an analytical look at D/s and more broadly at human sexuality
(and how the former functions within and fits into the latter). See
also "Why I Write" here
Naturally there is more to add, even if you're thoroughly read every Essay and erotic Fantasy currently on the site† and the other sections. If you think you and I may be compatible for a relationship, or if you simply feel a close "kindred soul" connection (or are simply curious) then you may want to read the links below, starting with a recent profile of mine.
♦1♦ My Alt.com profile (brief addendum here)
♦2♦ More about what I seek (and what I don't seek) and who I seek, in a relationship.
♦3♦ The following is a very old personal ad (one of the first I wrote years back) You should give the above links much more attention. But see the old profile's section "The next step must be yours.." basically "What you should tell me about yourself in the first email(s) you write to me". I've put that section in red font. It's near the bottom of this old personal ad; skip the rest (at least for now). All other links on this page are current (2012)
♦4♦ A few more things prospective subs/partners should know about me (Important!)
New: ♦5♦ Direct quotes from my former subs and other girlfriends (if you're here not as potential partner/sub of mine, this will not interest you. If you are exploring a more than friends connection with me, you should read the above items first to check for compatible visions, first, and then) read their words here
New: A few photos of some of of accessories for D/s, vanilla, and massage (for photos of me, see links at item 1 above)
There's a lot more I could add but for now this will have to
do. You may wish to re-read my Alt profile with the above comments in
mind; read the existing Essays
and Erotic stories; re-visit when I post more
essays (The D/s Theory of Relativity and What Do We Want) and more
erotica (A New Kind of Spanking and another one on erotic
embarrassment/erotic humiliation and one about...).
♦ Some things to include in a first letter from you: see item 3 above.
†I'll likely expand this section too, but, like good cooking or a good relationship, it takes significant time investments, so news essays and erotic stories may take 3 or even 6 months to add, and likewise for items added to this section (if you're in email contact you'll be more up to date, otherwise can check periodically)